I saw a post that was asking a lady not to tell men she is in a serious relationship if the man she has, has not been to her Family for an official introduction;
They say "Just like a shoe, when someone is meant for you, they will fit just perfectly. No forcing, no struggling and no pain".
That could be true for shoes, but definitely not for humans.
Don't get it twisted. Love is not sex and sex is not love.
Men and women respond differently to sex and females are most likely to get confused about the two.
Sex in marriage and sex outside marriage are very different.